How far have you gone with a woman?

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Re: How far have you gone with a woman?

Postby exairman » Wed Jun 30, 2010 12:59 pm

Engaged, encompassed just about everything, including having sex denied to me, which was never as effective as she wanted it to be. Strangely enough she is still my best friend, and occasional rounding the bases will occur if we are both too drunk and/or horny to care.

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Re: How far have you gone with a woman?

Postby outstraight » Mon Sep 06, 2010 6:39 pm

All the way. I used to define myself as gay. Now I consider myself bi.
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Re: How far have you gone with a woman?

Postby nimby » Mon Sep 06, 2010 8:31 pm

Hey, welcome Outstraight!
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Re: How far have you gone with a woman?

Postby Marvinteck » Tue Nov 02, 2010 7:11 pm

Kiss on the cheek.

My junior prom was a train wreck. I had a crush on this girl since grade school and we were pen pals. She lived in another town and she invited me to her junior prom. Both of didnt have cars so we got chaufered by her parents to and from prom. I cant dance to save my life. During the fast songs I looked like a retarded chimpanzee on crack. During the slow songs me and my date were literally two feat apart and not even touching just slowly moving to the music. That should tell you how comfortable I am with the opposite sex. Needless to say she broke off our friendship shortly after that debacle.
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Re: How far have you gone with a woman?

Postby Donovan » Mon Dec 06, 2010 9:30 pm

Had a few dates with a girl in high school, but never kissed her or doing anything sexual.

I once tried to steal a kiss on a girl at her graduation in front of her parents. I was in my "curious/confused" stage and was trying to see how it would feel to kiss a girl (I liked her at the time). But I think it was at the wrong time and the wrong place. I guess I was not thinking clearly with me head. :oops:
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Re: How far have you gone with a woman?

Postby Ashpenaz » Mon Dec 06, 2010 9:50 pm

I don't know if I'm a virgin with women or not. I went to bed with this one girl (I met her the first day of college, we were naked in my dorm that night). I was ready to go when I, to phrase it gently, was overcome by her scent. It wasn't pleasant. Honestly, I'm not sure how straight guys work past that whole smell thing--and they complain that anuses are disgusting! :o Anyhoo, I remember trying, but I can't remember if I actually entered her or not. I must have, though it wouldn't have been for very long. As things turn out, she was having her period, so she finished me off orally. And that was as far I've gotten with a woman.

As Woody Allen once said, "The last time I was inside a woman was when I visited the Statue of Liberty."
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Re: How far have you gone with a woman?

Postby Keeper » Sun May 01, 2011 1:49 pm

once in college me and a gay friend were drinking with another friend (female). we started horsing around, daring each other, etc... and I ened up making out with her and feeling her boob. I was noticing that she wasn't resisting at ALL.
When I realized that both of them were not laughing anymore and things were getting serious I pulled back like "whoa whoa guys. I was just joking" I think they would have allowed the whole thing to develop into a three-way.

for me: no way.

that's as far as I've ever come to sex with a woman.
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Re: How far have you gone with a woman?

Postby J » Sun May 01, 2011 11:14 pm

First base. One time. About 20 years ago.
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Re: How far have you gone with a woman?

Postby Davy » Mon May 02, 2011 2:59 pm

Second (almost third) base. About 11 years ago. What can I say? I wanted to try it. Needless to say, I won't be going there again.
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Re: How far have you gone with a woman?

Postby Rico » Mon May 02, 2011 4:16 pm

All the way a bunch of times and I'll leave it at that. But it's been so long I might have forgotten how. :)
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Re: How far have you gone with a woman?

Postby Tristar » Mon May 16, 2011 8:54 am

My first sexual encounter was with a man. My second and the next few were with a woman up to and including penetration. And that was enough of that...
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Re: How far have you gone with a woman?

Postby nimby » Mon May 16, 2011 5:31 pm

Rico wrote:All the way a bunch of times and I'll leave it at that. But it's been so long I might have forgotten how. :)

It's kinda like riding a bike. If you fall off you get right back on. :lol:
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Re: How far have you gone with a woman?

Postby Gaydudelaf » Mon May 16, 2011 8:18 pm

Schlodesss wrote:Slow danced... kissed... meh... I was fairly young.

She asked me out that night I told her no... she left the dance crying b/c she couldn't figure out why... everyone was all mad b/'c I "hurt her" because I never had a valid reason... she was a cute girl too, her name was Stacey.. straight, I would have dated her and Jenn too.. another I actually dated then called it off because well.. I wasn't into her. This was Gr8 and I decided after dangin with, and kissing that Stacey girl that I would never lead someone on again, thinking they have a chance... And I never tried anything with, or dated another girl since...

High school was a long lonely existence, hell, my whole life as been for the most part...


I went all the way sexually while thinking about guys, but was never was able to leave port in terms of any relationship connection.
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Re: How far have you gone with a woman?

Postby Mephistopheles » Fri May 20, 2011 3:38 pm

I licked a pussy once...I quickly decided I didn't like it.
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Re: How far have you gone with a woman?

Postby Mac59 » Sat May 21, 2011 8:24 pm

I believe I kissed one girl in college and sort of had a "makeout session" with a female after college. Other than that, nada, it's been men.
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Re: How far have you gone with a woman?

Postby Gaydudelaf » Sun May 22, 2011 4:42 pm

Mac59 wrote:I believe I kissed one girl in college and sort of had a "makeout session" with a female after college. Other than that, nada, it's been men.


Yeah, I haven't made out with that many girls, but I do remember being bored when I did. I was also very distraught when I learned that I was supposed to get a woody when making out with a girl.
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Re: How far have you gone with a woman?

Postby DeckApe » Mon May 23, 2011 9:15 am

Vancouver, once. :lol:

Seriously. One kiss with tongue, and nada.
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Re: How far have you gone with a woman?

Postby Ben » Sat Aug 27, 2011 12:43 am

I've gone all the way, several times. Then I lost interest.
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Re: How far have you gone with a woman?

Postby engagé » Sun Sep 25, 2011 10:54 pm

I've had lots of practice. 2 kids. Worse. 10 yrs later ANOTHER woman ! Her adult son was cute... Finally I got it in my head that it might be OK for ME to look at guys. :D
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Re: How far have you gone with a woman?

Postby nimby » Mon Sep 26, 2011 11:59 am

Hey! Welcome! Another late bloomer. Yes it is ok to look at guys now.
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Re: How far have you gone with a woman?

Postby olywaguy » Wed Nov 30, 2011 3:13 am

I have never been with a woman. I was always very shy with girls and never went out on a date with a girl.

All of my sexual experiences have been with guys and that started for me at the age of 40 with a 19 year old guy that pursued me.
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Re: How far have you gone with a woman?

Postby Ronstar32 » Sat Jun 09, 2012 12:41 pm

I thought i was bi and it took all the way to my second year of college to actually get with a girl but when it was time for my dingle to tingle he decided to dangle instead
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