Hmm, moral dilemma

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Hmm, moral dilemma

Postby michaelk69 » Fri Jan 18, 2013 12:27 pm

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Re: Hmm, moral dilemma

Postby Cajun » Fri Jan 18, 2013 12:55 pm

The friend is probably going to be able to verify your Mom's comments through others shortly, so lying is really not an option. If it were me, I'd respond that she needs to talk DIRECTLY with Mom, and let the two of them work it out - in the end, that's what really needs to happen, so let's just cut to the chase, so to speak. Good luck Mikey.....;)
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Re: Hmm, moral dilemma

Postby RedMenace » Fri Jan 18, 2013 3:41 pm

I agree with Cajun. The truth will eventually work its way out no matter how much we might prefer it didn't. Anyway, your mom said it and not you. They should probably talk it over and not put you in the middle. Alright, enough comments from the peanut gallery.

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Re: Hmm, moral dilemma

Postby michaelk69 » Fri Jan 18, 2013 5:15 pm

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Re: Hmm, moral dilemma

Postby Lesley R. Charles » Fri Jan 18, 2013 5:57 pm

I agree with the rest of the guys, tell your friend to talk to your mom. I would not say what my mother said nor would I confirm it.
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Re: Hmm, moral dilemma

Postby foxeyes2 » Fri Jan 18, 2013 6:18 pm

Yep have her talk to your mom.
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Re: Hmm, moral dilemma

Postby DeckApe » Fri Jan 18, 2013 6:27 pm

I think we are all in accord here... assuming both parties are adults, let them sort it out.
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Re: Hmm, moral dilemma

Postby nimby » Fri Jan 18, 2013 8:30 pm

Wow, It's nice to see so many guys here, I have to chip in...yeah, what they all said.
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Re: Hmm, moral dilemma

Postby michaelk69 » Sat Jan 19, 2013 9:58 am

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Re: Hmm, moral dilemma

Postby Lesley R. Charles » Sat Jan 19, 2013 10:09 am

Yes, michael it does seem that your sister was out to cause trouble for your mother without thinking of hurting anyone else's feeling. I used to do things like that when I was younger and immature, but as I have gotten older I realized it is wrong to be a bitch and hurt others because you are hurt and/or jealous yourself. That was my motives, we may not know why your sister does what she does or not, but I think your mother should apologize for her remarks if she did not mean them and just said them. In the future I think it would be wise to watch what is said around your sister.
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Re: Hmm, moral dilemma

Postby michaelk69 » Sat Jan 19, 2013 10:22 am

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Re: Hmm, moral dilemma

Postby Lesley R. Charles » Sat Jan 19, 2013 12:24 pm

Well Michael I guess it is safe to say your sister definitely has issues, and I think it is good right now that she is not talking with you as it seems she has a lot of drama right now. I still remember my bout with Xanax as I was on it in the early '80's because of clinical depression. Unfortunately the dr. I was seeing didn't know that you don't just stop Xanax, and I had bad withdrawal for about a week, thought I was going to go crazy. Michael I do hope it works out for you, your mom and the friend. Maybe your sister will finally hit bottom and get herself the help she needs. All I can say is you are a great guy and I hope this gets better soon.
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Re: Hmm, moral dilemma

Postby nimby » Sat Jan 19, 2013 6:37 pm

O M G!! Michael, your sister is my sister too. Mine is just as crazy. I stay clear away from her as much as possible.
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Re: Hmm, moral dilemma

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Re: Hmm, moral dilemma

Postby Lesley R. Charles » Mon Jan 21, 2013 9:37 am

I am glad that you are trying to be there for your niece who unfortunately is being caught in her mother's games. I do pray that your sister realizes that she needs help. I am so sorry for you Michael as I know this must really hurt you.
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