Being A Catcher

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Being A Catcher

Postby jeangurl » Mon Oct 11, 2010 8:14 pm

I have enjoyed anal sex in the past as it made me feel like a girl having sex with a boy,especially with me on my back in a normalgirls position.

However I always found I hurt the next day and felt as though i had been torn,though i hadnt actually.

Is there something i can do to alleviate the pain or am i just too tight and virginal? :oops:
I have boxed played rugby and work out a lot but i have always been agirly sissie at heart.

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Re: Being A Catcher

Postby DeckApe » Wed Oct 20, 2010 10:52 am

More lubricant, smaller top (!), perhaps start out in the superior position and then switch when you get "warmed up."
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Re: Being A Catcher

Postby madsglen » Wed Oct 20, 2010 7:44 pm

Deckape makes some great points. Use the old "boy scout" approach (sorry for that possibly unfortunate reference...) and be prepared. Don't fall into the "porn" trap. None of those guys take it without some preparation. Having you start out on top allows you to control things for a while until you're warmed up and really ready to go. Starting out slow and steady in any position might help (and it can feel great for both of you). And the old adage that the "catcher is in control" is a good one, kind of like in baseball. He only gets in if you let him in when you're good and ready. And if your pitcher seems to think punching away like a jackrabbit is what it's all about, then maybe you can teach him a thing or two. Good luck.
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Re: Being A Catcher

Postby DeckApe » Thu Oct 21, 2010 9:11 am

Madsglen adds a very good point. Ultimately the bottom is in control, and tell whomever is "punching away like a jackrabbit" to slow down... it isn't a race.
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Re: Being A Catcher

Postby nimby » Mon Oct 28, 2013 6:26 pm

I've always loved the term catcher. So visual. :D
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