Whats Your Effeminate Trait?

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Whats Your Effeminate Trait?

Postby rovie » Sun Nov 21, 2004 8:28 am

Come on you ultra and less-than-ultra straightacting guys, I know you must have at least one effeminate trait.

OK what's mine?

I like calling bitchy or nasty guys 'You bitch!' to their faces (but it's become fashionable for straight guys to say that too now). A couple of guys I know really well I call 'darls' when I'm making a really important observation about what they shouldn't be saying or wearing (straight guys definitely don't do that.... yet :D).

Very occasionally I cross my legs funny.

Catch myself doing the 'pearl clutch' from time to time - and instantly reverse the stance once I realize.

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Postby ditchdigger » Sun Nov 21, 2004 10:13 am

Ok...I'll admit it. I use the word "Hon" wayyyy too many times on a given day.
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Postby Thomsen » Sun Nov 21, 2004 11:25 am

When I see someone wearing soemthing really awful I completely trash them in my head. Especially women in spandex...
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Postby aussienick » Sun Nov 21, 2004 5:14 pm

Thomsen wrote:When I see someone wearing soemthing really awful I completely trash them in my head. Especially women in spandex...


I do that too, although depending on who I'm with I'll say it out loud :oops:


I've also been known to cross my legs a bit.
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Postby Texas_Thang » Sun Nov 21, 2004 8:19 pm

ditchdigger wrote:Ok...I'll admit it. I use the word "Hon" wayyyy too many times on a given day.


Guilty as charged here too.... :wink:
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Postby Negate » Mon Nov 22, 2004 3:31 am

If excited I talk fast enough to classify with ppl like the Rapper Mystikal and Busta Rhymes LOL.
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Postby michaelk69 » Mon Nov 22, 2004 6:34 am

Too many 'beauty products' for sure (exfoliator, moisturizer, eye cream, skin conditioner, hair conditioner, body lotion, hand lotion, etc etc)

But shhhhhh, nobody knows that ;-)
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Postby edu999 » Mon Nov 22, 2004 6:43 am

michaelk69 wrote:Too many 'beauty products' for sure (exfoliator, moisturizer, eye cream, skin conditioner, hair conditioner, body lotion, hand lotion, etc etc)

But shhhhhh, nobody knows that ;-)


Eheheh... along the same vein... my dead giveaway is that my "product" for hair is "forming cream", and before I switched to that I used "fiber paste". :lol:
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Postby aussienick » Tue Nov 23, 2004 2:27 am

Ah yes, my 'tool box'. It has a broad range of American Crew hair products, a facial scrub and moisteriser :)
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Postby adem_nyc » Tue Nov 23, 2004 9:25 am

Uh, there was that time I watched a Golden Girls marathon. And laughed my ass off.



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Postby matym » Wed Nov 24, 2004 9:38 pm

I was talking to Solat the other day about the "pearl clutch" where you put your hand to your chest in conversation. I swore I never did it before we talked but now I keep catching myself doing it. I feel like such a girl.
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Postby petershowers » Thu Nov 25, 2004 1:55 am

Ok, you want the truth? Some of my traits are crossing my legs knee to knee unconsciously in public, gossiping about odd people i see with my sister, rolling my eyes unconsciously, and saying whatever too much. sometimes i suck my teeth and i have one too many facial and body scrubs
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Postby rovie » Thu Nov 25, 2004 8:28 am

As long as you don't do 'that' snort at the same time as you roll your eyes to the heavens. :lol:

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Postby BlackmanXXX » Thu Nov 25, 2004 2:05 pm

I tend to whine on the phone to my best friend Karl about what's going on in my life ( bad day at school, dealing with female stalkers, politics, being bisexual and black and male at the same time, dealing with a difficult family, dealing with angry and disrespectful little sister, veiled threats, boredom) and for the most part Karl is cool with it. He's a totally straight guy....who's not threatened by having a closeted bisexual best friend. He's the best !!!!! I dont know what I would do without him. Seriously. I guess that's my one feminine trait....whining. I can whine like the best of them.
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Postby Chris » Thu Nov 25, 2004 5:52 pm

I"m butch in every way hahaha.

My worst fem fault is stressing over what to wear when going out! :oops:
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Postby Texas_Thang » Thu Nov 25, 2004 5:53 pm

adem_nyc wrote:Uh, there was that time I watched a Golden Girls marathon. And laughed my ass off.



Adem


Guilty as charged here too...

Dorothy: "He had a big floppy, well...y'know..."
Rose: "A big floppy what?"
Dorothy: "A big floppy SPLEEN, Rose!" :lol:
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Postby ChunkJGZX » Thu Nov 25, 2004 6:03 pm

I'm a big Buffy the Vampire Slayer fan. For some reason I feel like that's a trait of big homos.

Plus I love techno/DJ/house music.
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Postby Ben » Fri Nov 26, 2004 11:06 am

Where do we draw the line of what's femme or what is just generally "gay" or what is gay - str8 behaving - just plain str8?

I draw the line on the usual femme telltale signs like the lisps, the wrist...the neck action, the flames,
when a gay simply talks and moves like a woman.
In that case I don't have any femme traits at all.

But what the hell.
I do have a cat, I like Buffy (simply because that show DOES whoop some ass) , Angel, Farscape, StarTrek, and various Jap. anime.
I generally care about how I dress and and how my hair looks.
(But then again I AM European)
Femme... hardly
Interrest in some good entertainment and some vanity...sure,
but that's way to common among guys of today to even be called generally "gay"

Four of the guys I know, all str8, one lil brother included watch Buffy.

Mike69, I know a straight guy who has more beauty products than you, and Chris, he is really picky about what to wear when he goes out...
And the bathroom smells like a whorehouse when he's done with all his deodorants and colonges.
Oh...and he's str8 btw!
Even his girlfriend thinks he's too much.
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Postby RedRage00 » Fri Nov 26, 2004 11:55 pm

adem_nyc wrote:Uh, there was that time I watched a Golden Girls marathon. And laughed my ass off.



Adem


Too funny!

GG is funny, though Ive never watched a marathon! :wink:

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Postby deathbrinegr » Sat Nov 27, 2004 11:41 am

Hm, Long hair would be considered a femme trait 'outside the community', but we know REAL gay guys would never be seen with long hair cause it would mean going more than 2 weeks without a haircut XD

Oh, and i sometimes use a little bit too much 'flair' when turning off the indicators in the car XD, and thats really it
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Postby rovie » Sun Nov 28, 2004 8:42 am

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Oh, and i sometimes use a little bit too much 'flair' when turning off the indicators in the car XD


:lol: I thought I was the only one to ever do that when in a really high mood.
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Postby michaelk69 » Sun Nov 28, 2004 7:51 pm

deathbrinegr wrote:Oh, and i sometimes use a little bit too much 'flair' when turning off the indicators in the car XD, and thats really it


Little translation help again, if needed . . . indicators are turn signals in American English, in case you don't know . . . sometimes called 'blinkers' too . . .

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Postby solat » Sun Nov 28, 2004 8:31 pm

deathbrinegr wrote:Oh, and i sometimes use a little bit too much 'flair' when turning off the indicators in the car XD, and thats really it


How the hell can you use too much flair when indicating? You use your pinky? :wink:
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Postby aussienick » Mon Nov 29, 2004 6:32 am

Playfully flick the indicator stalk with a limp wrist? I dunno :lol:
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Postby rovie » Mon Nov 29, 2004 8:30 am

Is that an admission aussienick? :lol:

Guys, you use your ring finger and make a big arc upwards or downwards - hand and arm. I think the action used to be called 'a flourish'. I don't think it's possible to do it with a limp wrist.

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