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Old Friend

Postby Lesley R. Charles » Fri May 14, 2010 3:51 pm

I have just finally connected to an old friend I have had since fourth grade. We were both boys then, or trying to be. I have also just found out that he was also transgendered and we were both afraid to say something. We could have done so much together then. But is nice to know that we can share things now. I just love the irony. My mother always said that me and this friend we a lot alike, guess mother knows best. ha ha. :D
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Re: Old Friend

Postby nimby » Fri May 14, 2010 7:24 pm

Wow!! Isn`t that wonderful!!! Good for you. Keep in touch with him. Childhood friends are the best.
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Re: Old Friend

Postby Lesley R. Charles » Fri May 14, 2010 7:30 pm

Thanks Nimby, and it is her now. I will keep in touch, I just like the fact that we were going through the same issues and were afraid to say something, so we both ended up feeling alone. I knew of my issues since I was three and she knew them since eight. I have her email and facebook. How have you been doing?
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Re: Old Friend

Postby Lesley R. Charles » Fri May 14, 2010 9:44 pm

I have been asked a question on what pronouns to use with transgendered people, and a good rule of thumb is to use what pronouns fit with how the person is presenting his/herself. For example if the transperson is dressed as a male then use male pronouns. If the transperson is dressed as a woman then use female pronouns. I hope this helps any of you.
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Re: Old Friend

Postby Schlodesss » Sat May 15, 2010 8:39 am

Thats pretty cool Leslie, heck I haven't even discovered any of my friends from youth or HS were/are gay.. still jus me so far outta the bunch I ran with.
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Re: Old Friend

Postby Lesley R. Charles » Sat May 15, 2010 8:44 am

I would think the odds would be better to find another gay guy than another transgendered person, but I could be wrong. Hope you have a great weekend.
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Re: Old Friend

Postby Schlodesss » Sat May 15, 2010 7:53 pm

You too Leslie.

I have a grudge race tonight my S 10 vs an 96 Escort Wagon 5 speed, 4 cyl, my truck is 4 cyl 5 speed.. this "beef" :lol: started about three months ago... tonight it gets settled.. lol....

i think I am going to holeshot him and he will reel me in by 70 MPH. lol.
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Re: Old Friend

Postby Lesley R. Charles » Sat May 15, 2010 8:32 pm

I hope you come out triumphant.
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Re: Old Friend

Postby Schlodesss » Sun May 16, 2010 3:41 pm

ROFL I lost. I could holeshot him and pull him to about 50 MPH every race but then he'd reel me in and go by..
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