Is Lesley a gay male?

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What do you see Lesley as?

Gay Male
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Straight Female
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Postby Lesley R. Charles » Sun Feb 06, 2005 6:07 am

Tygerrr,

Thanks for the compliment. It took me a long time to get there. Maybe that comes with getting older. You feel time is getting short and you start looking for ways that will make you happy.
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Postby dabonsteed » Sun Feb 06, 2005 5:05 pm

Lesley,
I don't really know you. You and I have never really locked horns on a topic nor do I think we've every enthusiastically agreed, so I can't base my thoughts on anything distinct other than what you have said.

and what I have seen you say is that you are a woman in a man's body, so that's how I see you. Had that not been brought to my attention I would've assumed you were like everyone else: a gay male. (excluding scones and the other straight guy, forget who he is).

But speaking of Scones, until I happened onto more than one post describing Scones as straight, it did not occur to me. It's so rare to run into straight men on gay websites that you assume they wouldn't be interested. But I've run into more than one straight guy in a gay chatroom. I think it's very cool.

But anyway, Lesley, I respect your self-assement and have no reason to doubt you, so you're a straight female in my eyes. Whether or not you've had surgery or plan on having surgery is of litte consequence to me.
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Postby drtom » Sun Feb 06, 2005 10:45 pm

nathanjones wrote:
FuzzyScorpio wrote:I think you are a female mentality in a genetically male body. And doesn't the mind count for more than the body in terms of one's inner self?


Yep....couldn't say it better myself.

Mind over matter.

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That's what I get for posting on page 2 without reading page 1. :) Well done, Fuzzy.
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Postby Lesley R. Charles » Sun Feb 06, 2005 10:47 pm

Tom,

That is quite all right. I enjoy reading your posts. You provide so much information, but make it interesting.
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Postby foxeyes2 » Mon Feb 07, 2005 8:15 am

I think of you as a woman because that is how you self identify but I also think of you as a kind, sweet and caring person. So your gender identification and sexual orientation is not of signigicant importance to me. It is your personality that I enjoy so you could be anything and it would all be the same to me.
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Postby GX » Mon Feb 07, 2005 11:44 am

Speaking of writing...i've played off as being a woman through typed format over the net and did surprisingly well at it. An entertaining experiment.
:lol:

I guess it could be akin to using your male voice or your female voice. I've got to work on that one but i've got the writing part down. On here I generally write in masculine format.
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Postby adem_nyc » Mon Feb 07, 2005 12:11 pm

I consider you a female.


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Postby Lesley R. Charles » Mon Feb 07, 2005 1:26 pm

Thank you Adem.

GX working on a female voice is something I don't have to worry about. My voice never changed, I even don't have a noticable Adam's Apple. I have been called ma'am over the phone so much, I don't even correct it anymore.
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Postby icegreen » Sun Feb 13, 2005 11:53 pm

I would say I consider you "straight as a woman", a "she", a "her", a gal, a chick, a feminine person (as opposed to an effiminate man), a sane adult, and a transsexual and leave it at that.
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Postby Lesley R. Charles » Mon Feb 14, 2005 6:36 am

I just want to thank you all for your answers. They were very helpful to me.
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Postby ninjacat » Sat Jul 09, 2005 1:27 am

Noodle wrote:
drtom wrote:Ideally you want to be a woman, so I think of you as a straight female. And nice avatar by the way!

Tom



Wow.

Ideally, Id like to be Denzel Washington (not really, but using for example sake) Does it make it so? Where's my Oscar party invitation?

When does " I want it real bad, so it must/hafta be true, turn into delusions?

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I do have to wholly agree with this.
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Postby Guest » Tue Aug 02, 2005 10:39 pm

I am new to this forum, but I already think of you, as the House Mother of this strange Fraternity.



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Postby devilnuts » Tue Aug 02, 2005 10:44 pm

Yes, and I just love misbehaving so that she can spank me... :oops:
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Postby Lesley R. Charles » Wed Aug 03, 2005 5:48 am

Far from Flaming, thank you and welcome to the group. Devilnuts, just wait till the next time I am out in Arizona. :lol:
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Postby Guest » Wed Aug 03, 2005 12:05 pm

Thankyou, Lesley

I see this morning you threw away my beer can pyrimid. Why, you know how much time and money I have spent building it?

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Postby RedRage00 » Wed Aug 03, 2005 12:09 pm

Lesley rocks! 8)
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Postby Cajun » Wed Aug 03, 2005 12:10 pm

Far from Flaming wrote:I am new to this forum, but I already think of you, as the House Mother of this strange Fraternity.



Far, a new plege


I especially like it when she comes into our dorm rooms at night just to "tuck" us in.......HEHE

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Postby Guest » Wed Aug 03, 2005 2:50 pm

Cajun, we have a laundryroom downstairs. I can teach you how to use it, all you need is to do is ask. Those socks of your's smell as bad as the duck you have hanging, seasoning on the front porch. Your going to get us thrown off of Fraternity Row.
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Postby Lesley R. Charles » Wed Aug 03, 2005 3:05 pm

Well, I just enjoy hanging around with all of you handsome guys. You all rock too. Cajun, that is the highlight of my day, tucking all of you guys in. :lol:
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Postby Cajun » Wed Aug 03, 2005 3:07 pm

Far from Flaming wrote:Cajun, we have a laundryroom downstairs. I can teach you how to use it, all you need is to do is ask. Those socks of your's smell as bad as the duck you have hanging, seasoning on the front porch. Your going to get us thrown off of Fraternity Row.


Stick around long enough, and you'll learn that it's not a Duck hanging on the porch near the stoop, it's a Bobcat hanging on the wall in the dining room, but whatever......... and don't forget the Downy, please :wink:
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Postby Cajun » Wed Aug 03, 2005 3:10 pm

Far from Flaming wrote:I am new to this forum, but I already think of you, as the House Mother of this strange Fraternity.



Far, a new plege


And BTW, who you callin' STRANGE????

You want strange, I'll show you strange - BILLLLLYYYYYYYYY?????

C'mere honey, I want you to meet someone new.

:P :P :P
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Postby devilnuts » Wed Aug 03, 2005 6:27 pm

Cajun wrote:
Far from Flaming wrote:I am new to this forum, but I already think of you, as the House Mother of this strange Fraternity.



Far, a new plege


And BTW, who you callin' STRANGE????

You want strange, I'll show you strange - BILLLLLYYYYYYYYY?????

C'mere honey, I want you to meet someone new.

:P :P :P


LOL...that might be a little much for him just yet Cajun...lmao...
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Postby Cajun » Wed Aug 03, 2005 6:50 pm

What?????

It's not like we're gonna hide him in the closet, like we tried to do last time - 'cause you KNOW how that turned out :shock: :shock: :shock:
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Postby Texas_Thang » Wed Aug 03, 2005 7:08 pm

You're BAD, Lane.
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Postby devilnuts » Wed Aug 03, 2005 7:33 pm

Cajun wrote:What?????

It's not like we're gonna hide him in the closet, like we tried to do last time - 'cause you KNOW how that turned out :shock: :shock: :shock:


How could I forget...I think he's still paying off that tiara he came out in...but regardless, we should at least break him in before meeting Billy. I mean, that whole eating of a frog still kinda freaks me out...lmao.
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