Is Lesley a gay male?

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What do you see Lesley as?

Gay Male
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Straight Female
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Postby BlackmanXXX » Wed Mar 08, 2006 2:16 pm

Lesley is a lady to me. Has always been.
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I need to engage in bisexual behavior on a massive scale. It cannot be corrected but I have no other way to fulfill my needs.
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Postby JakeMIke » Wed Mar 08, 2006 4:24 pm

Lesley is whatever she believes herself to be, and we should respect that. Why should we be discussing it as if she were not around?
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Postby JakeMIke » Wed Mar 08, 2006 4:28 pm

Sorry! Just read the initial post where I see that Lesley is asking this question herself.

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My answer is the same though. I think she is the most qualified to define herself, and I would not presume to do so.
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Postby Lesley R. Charles » Wed Mar 08, 2006 8:10 pm

That is quite all right, JakeMike. I posted that when I was getting some flak from another poster. Blackman, thank you for your comment too.
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Postby Lesley R. Charles » Wed Mar 08, 2006 9:26 pm

Thanks berg. That means more to me than you can imagine. I have gotten a lot of support here from the guys. Sometimes it is just hard dealing with a mind that says you are a girl and a body that says that you are male. There were times growing up that I thought I was crazy, especially with everybody trying to make a man out of me. As you can see, thankfully, they did not succeed and I tried to be myself always.
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Postby Lesley R. Charles » Wed Mar 08, 2006 9:46 pm

Thanks again for the support. I too have become more introspective since I have decided to face my gender issues rather than avoid them, so yes I agree with you. I definately would love to have you come out of a cake with speedos on. You sound like a guy who is comfortable with himself and that is definately a big plus.
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Postby Hybridacting » Fri Mar 10, 2006 1:20 pm

I think that Lesley is emotionnaly, mentally and psychologically a female but her biological make up is male. I am happy to see you as a female but I am sorry I can't help, whenever I see your username, to think :here is our Lesley, she was born male.
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Postby Lesley R. Charles » Fri Mar 10, 2006 6:40 pm

That is all right after all it is the truth.
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Postby michaelk69 » Tue Mar 14, 2006 3:47 am

Lesley R. Charles wrote:That is all right after all it is the truth.

And yet, is is funny, because i NEVER think of you as a male? I am not sure whether it is your writing style (I very much hear a woman's voice when I read it) or your fantastic avatar (compliments of Solat), but I never, ever think about you as anything other than just a 'regular' woman, albeit an intelligent, kind, and insightful one . . .
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Postby Lesley R. Charles » Tue Mar 14, 2006 5:52 am

Michael, thank you. I too consider myself a woman. Yes, I guess I do write and sound like a woman. Basically in my case I have a female brain in a biologically male body. Thanks to that BBC test I have found out that my ring and index fingers on both hands are the same length. What this means is that during the first 8 to 10 weeks of my mother's pregnancy with me is that estrogen was the dominant hormone and it is during that time that the brain because wired to either male or female. In my case it became wired to female and hence I always felt I was born the wrong sex and had to work at playing male to avoid a lot of problems. But that doesn't always work, in my case I was always very feminine and it would definately slip out.
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