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My boyfriend is straight

Postby ThatGuyLA » Tue Sep 03, 2013 3:13 pm

Hey guys,

I joined this community after searching for answers online about my current situation.

I am madly in love with someone 10 years younger than me.
We have an amazing relationship. We spend time together working, playing, traveling.

The affection is there. Hold hands constantly. Kisses throughout the day. Rubbing, massaging, cuddling etc.
The sex life has been an evolution. It started as me touching his genitals then progressed to me performing oral and eventually mutual oral and now it is fully sexual with him being on "top".

Here is the issue...
My boyfriend was straight when we started this romance.
It has been a long road to get to where we are now physically.
He tells me he still likes girls and is not sexually attracted to men at all. He is with me because of our deeper connection, not the physical attraction.

He, and I are both VERY masculine and live as straight men.
We have agreed to be monogamous and are very in love. He said that as long as he is with me, he will not be with a girl.

I believe him but at the same time I feel like I am forcing him to be something he's not.
His web history is full of straight porn or just solo female porn.
He admits to me he does masturbate to girls regularly but that its just "fantasy" and that he is still faithful and in love with me.

I'm so confused!! Should I just let go of an otherwise amazing and loving and happy relationship? I'm worried eventually he will just need to ultimately be with a girl.
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Re: My boyfriend is straight

Postby olywaguy » Fri Oct 18, 2013 2:53 am

If he's in a relationship with you, he's not straight. If he likes girls still...he's bisexual.

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Re: My boyfriend is straight

Postby nimby » Sun Oct 20, 2013 8:57 pm

Yup, I agree. He's bisexual.
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Re: My boyfriend is straight

Postby DeckApe » Wed Oct 23, 2013 6:05 pm

It would appear that yes, he is bisexual. What you do with that is up to you. You have to decide (not on a snap basis, mind you) how you feel about this, what (if anything) you do about it, what (for lack of a better word) allowances you make. I'm a perfect Kinsey six, so I'm excluding myself from the advice circuit as it's just not a situation I have experience with.
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Re: My boyfriend is straight

Postby Alpha Male » Sat Apr 30, 2016 12:34 pm

Bi-sextual offcourse..
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