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Would you sleep with a PORN STAR?

Postby dracuscalico » Thu Oct 30, 2008 4:59 am

We all have our favorite porn guys that we have looked at, or saved pics of, at one time or another. So, if the opportunity to sleep with the porn star presented itself, would you take it?

Would you pay money to sleep with your favorite porn star?

Would you sleep with him, if it was a hookup for free?

Would you sleep with him, if you were emotionally attracted to him?

Would you sleep with him more than once?

Would you sleep with him anytime he was in town if he wanted to see you?

Would you perform sex acts with him that you've never tried before?

Would you be afraid there was a hidden camera?

Would YOU take pictures with your camera phone for "posterity" ?

Would you keep it a secret or tell someone that you slept with him?

Would you seriously date him, if he became smitten with you?

Would you be afraid to be seen anywhere with him for fear he might be recognized?

If he met people you know, who aren't aware of his career, would you tell them what he does for a living?
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Postby JakeMIke » Thu Oct 30, 2008 7:25 am

I'd definitely sleep with a porn star, but probably wouldn't go for a relationship. I prefer monogamy.
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Postby Phoenix6570 » Thu Oct 30, 2008 2:27 pm

I would sleep with a porn star if I had the chance. I would not give up a prime opportunity :twisted: . As for the other questions it depends on how well we get along. If things were going well then I would want to continue seeing him. If it got to the point where emotions are getting involved then I would have to draw a line with his career before things could keep going. I wouldn't want to "share" my potential boyfriend with all of these other guys. If he wasn't willing to accept that then things wouldn't go any further. I guess I would hope for a relationship but see how well a friendship would work out also. Something tells me that having a serious relationship with a porn star would be a bit difficult.
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Postby Frizzurd » Thu Oct 30, 2008 8:39 pm

no i wouldn't
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Re: Would you sleep with a PORN STAR?

Postby DerWanderer » Thu Oct 30, 2008 8:43 pm

We all have our favorite porn guys that we have looked at, or saved pics of, at one time or another. So, if the opportunity to sleep with the porn star presented itself, would you take it?

Possibly...if it wasn't a situation I was taking undue advantage of

Would you pay money to sleep with your favorite porn star? No

Would you sleep with him, if it was a hookup for free? Possibly

Would you sleep with him, if you were emotionally attracted to him? Possibly

Would you sleep with him more than once? I'm a firm believer in second chances...

Would you sleep with him anytime he was in town if he wanted to see you? If I had nothing else going on...or no one else...

Would you perform sex acts with him that you've never tried before? Possibly. Imagination might amuse me.

Would you be afraid there was a hidden camera? Not particularly. Extortion isn't likely to work, and I'd bet he has far more to lose than I do.

Would YOU take pictures with your camera phone for "posterity" ? Doubtful. I have a far better camera than that which comes with my cell phone.
Would you keep it a secret or tell someone that you slept with him? I don't sleep and tell...

Would you seriously date him, if he became smitten with you? Who am I to pass up a good opportunity?

Would you be afraid to be seen anywhere with him for fear he might be recognized? Pffft....

If he met people you know, who aren't aware of his career, would you tell them what he does for a living? Not really for me to say. If really pressed I would probably take the politely vague approach...as a matter of courtesy...oh he's in the film industry.
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Postby rob650 » Sun Nov 02, 2008 2:34 pm

Not a big deal, porn stars are people too, and can be super nice guys.
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Postby Guinness Fan » Sun Nov 02, 2008 2:53 pm

Have any of you guys actually ever known a porn star? They ever mention how they got into the business?
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Postby rob650 » Sun Nov 02, 2008 5:00 pm

Either approached (at the gym, club, etc..) by a "recruiter", or applied for the job from a job posting somewhere.
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Postby chidiver » Sun Nov 02, 2008 5:04 pm

For any of you that know a real life porn star. Do they say "oh ya" a lot, or is that phrase just overused in every porn script?
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Postby Sportsguy » Sun Nov 02, 2008 7:21 pm

I guess it would depend on the circumstances. I would not sleep with him because he is a porn star. I would sleep with him if we liked each other.
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Postby dracuscalico » Sun Nov 02, 2008 7:23 pm

I was involved with a Pornstar briefly. (who will remain nameless) We'd started a long distance courtship/relationship. When we met he said he was leaving the business and that the reason he got involved is because he got to be with a lot of other hot guys without strings or rejection. And also because he doesn't have anybody and at least he got some kind of affection that way.

A lot of it is bull or wishful thinking, as the real deal was, he was damaged goods from a series of bad relationships where guys told him he was worthless, so doing this either reinforced it and/or made him feel valued.

I tried not to be judgmental when I met him and he told me at first that he was a stripper. I assumed it was much more than that, so I did not give a shocked response when he told me he had done films. I never wanted to see what he had done, even though he wanted to show me, because it's not quite the same as looking at a model's portfolio.

He started getting offers to come out of retirement and do more work and asked me what he should do because he was being offered a lot of money. I told him that we need to cool it and he needs to take the opportunities while they are there because he was in his 40's. So, we ended things.

A few years later I find out online that he had become an escort, something that I also feared might have been part of the equation. It sort of boils down to this: porn movies are high end advertisements for escort hookups(personal appearances) with the "stars". People pay a lot of money to be with the actual person who did that hot scene in that hot movie they JO to all the time.

Now about the sex. I wouldn't have sex with him for the first 6 months or so. My deal was my fear, rational or not, of catching something from him because of the movies, though in reality ANYONE could do the same sex acts and take the same number of risks, without it being on film.

He told me he wanted to be with me cause he could tell I wasn't just about sex. I told him I wasn't interested in having sex with him, and he said "I know". He found it intriguing that I was not fawning all over him like the rest of the world. When we walked around South Beach everyone knew him. One thing that did make me like him, despite my misgivings, was that he never took his eyes off me, while this was going on. No matter how many other hot guys were around, he was locked on me like radar.

So months later we had sex when I went to visit him for a couple of weeks. I was still squeamish about his past so, it did not get to the dirty deed, just other stuff. I was concerned that he'd been with so many guys who have sex for a living that my skills would not be on par with what he was used to and I TOLD HIM SO. He said you only need technique if there is no natural chemistry,(he should know) :roll: .

We were not compatible though. He was so used to sex being something that you DISPLAY more than experience, that he wanted me to JO while he stood back and watched me. He wanted to look at us in the mirror together a lot. He wanted to pose and try to tantalize me a lot. I wanted physical contact, not to put on a show and it also made me worry that there might be hidden cameras somewhere and that this was going to be on the internet. When he performed oral and I closed my eyes, he yelled at me to look at him while he was doing it. He wanted to hold eye contact, which I get, but it all seemed FAKE. I felt like he was performing the whole time, doing things as he was taught to do them to SELL the moment. I could not trust that anything was real except his climax. And even THEN, you had to wonder if it was a "dramatization for effect".

There was nothing extraordinary about his sexual abilities. In fact he was average at best. I had overlooked the fact that porn stars get paid to make it LOOK like they are having great sex and like they have awesome technique when in reality, if the technique was THAT good, the guys would climax too early when they are supposed to last as long as possible to get the maximum amount of footage for editing.

Though many of my concerns about him were prejudicial, they were not unfounded. I think it would be difficult to be in a relationship with a porn star unless you really LIKED the fact that they were doing or had done it. Anyone can make past choices that they wish to leave behind, but if porn is still part of the equation, it's going to be a challenge if you have conventional values.
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Postby Pazuzu P. Sasquatch » Sun Nov 02, 2008 7:45 pm

Guinness Fan wrote:Have any of you guys actually ever known a porn star? They ever mention how they got into the business?


I met Jack Wrangler once in, like, 1979. He was really short (in stature). Very friendly guy, as I recall.
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Postby dracuscalico » Sun Nov 02, 2008 7:57 pm

I have had the misfortune that I keep meeting similarly built cute guys and they turn out to be strippers or porn stars. It is very disconcerting and one of the reasons why I am single, besides wanting someone with no vices who is not under a doctors care for any reason. I can see how beautiful people can sometimes end up with someone who is not. The pool of available similar people gets smaller as you "specialize" (get picky about what you want) to the point where you settle.

I won't mention names. I was workout partners with one for quite awhile, before his career took him to the stratosphere of gay porn. I was so glad we were no longer in contact when that happenned. Everyone would of accused me of sleeping with him.
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Postby Eric in Dodge City » Wed Nov 05, 2008 12:55 am

I'd certainly be tempted to sleep with a porn star (and believe me, I've got a list of candidates in mind.) But I think I would eventually decline the offer, simply because reality would probably diminish the fantasy.
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Postby Pazuzu P. Sasquatch » Wed Nov 05, 2008 12:57 am

As reality tends to do. . . . :?
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Postby dracuscalico » Wed Nov 05, 2008 4:11 pm

I remember maybe 5 years ago, before I had the intense level discretionary concerns that I have now, I went to the IML in Chicago. There was also, the gay porn Oscar-like award show in town with Chi Chi LaRue. I hadn't really looked at porn at that point, because I felt it would only depress me about being single, but decided to go to the show. I wore all black clothes and really plain ones, so as not to draw attention to myself and because I was by myself, I went over and stood near this group of built cute guys that seemed to vibe with me, and hung out with them prior to the show.

When Chi Chi Larue, came into the lobby, she addressed the group I was with and it turned out they were award nominees! They were standing out front so fans could recognize them I was embarassed that people may have thought I was one of them and mortified that someone may have taken photos while I was standing with them, and that it was going to appear in some gay press and come back to bite me.

The interesting thing about that group of guys though, is because they were at the top of their field, they had no pretense in how they conducted themselves. Just down to earth nice guys, who didn't give off a sexual vibe and you'd never know from looking at them that they did porn.
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Postby djwm172 » Wed Nov 05, 2008 8:52 pm

To go back to the original question, my answer is YES. Paul Carrigan.

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Postby chidiver » Wed Nov 05, 2008 9:35 pm

djwm172 wrote:To go back to the original question, my answer is YES. Paul Carrigan.

Jim


Yes, yes indeed.
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Postby Pazuzu P. Sasquatch » Thu Nov 06, 2008 5:41 am

djwm172 wrote:To go back to the original question, my answer is YES. Paul Carrigan.

Jim


He's a hottie fer sure. . . The Boss and I picked up some of his recent, um, "work" recently. . . . He and his frequent co-star Paul Morgan both seem to be aging pretty well, I must say.
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Postby Pazuzu P. Sasquatch » Thu Nov 06, 2008 5:45 am

dracuscalico wrote:Just down to earth nice guys, who didn't give off a sexual vibe and you'd never know from looking at them that they did porn.


Interesting. I've heard that from a lot of people who know/have met gay porn stars. . . . Maybe the constant supply of hot sex keeps them mellow.
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Postby dracuscalico » Tue Nov 11, 2008 9:49 pm

Yes, I've heard that it mellows some people out....(ahem!)... :wink:
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Postby Pazuzu P. Sasquatch » Wed Nov 12, 2008 4:24 am

I see what you did there. . . . 8)
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Re: Would you sleep with a PORN STAR?

Postby CollegePepper » Thu Dec 24, 2009 10:44 pm

My answer would be NO because its been said by many porn stars that EVERY SINGLE Person working in the porn world has herpes. The only thing thye really worry about is HIV, but herpes and all that other stuff is pretty common. In fact here is a quote from Rocco Siffredi:
Are you not afraid of other venereal diseases, like herpes?

"Let me tell you a secret: in this business everybody has herpes, myself included. Every professional in the porn-world has herpes, male or female. It's the smallest thing you can get, it's really nothing serious. Now and then it shows up on your body, then you get small blisters or ulcers on your mouth or genitals. Sometimes it returns once in two years, sometimes two times a month. It's called Herpes Simplex.

"My doctor said every fourth person on earth has some kind of herpes, a quarter of the total world-population."

But you don't have to worry no more, for you already have it. (Sighs)

"Probably I got it even before I came into this business. "

I presume you don't work when blisters and ulcers show on your lips?


"No, then I have to rest for a week and take my medicine."



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Re: Would you sleep with a PORN STAR?

Postby butch » Thu Dec 24, 2009 11:57 pm

As in real life, I'm not at all attracted to most... porn stars included. Methinks that if someone were truly in the porn business with "star" status, that would not earn a gold star for me.

Someone gave me a porn movie a long time ago he thought I might enjoy, and I do because the "star" is definitely my type. I'm guessing he was barely legal and didn't look even remotely gay. Yes, I would have slept with him. He didn't look anything like most guys in the porn videos I've ever seen... not that I've seen many. Guess I'm not the one to ask, in that regard. Most porn I've seen is really, really, really bad. Enough to put one off sex completely.

As regards Herpes... anyone who has ever had a "cold sore" has herpes. Once you get it, you've got it for life. It is only dangerous just before, and for a few days after the outbreak... not a long time. Just before and just after the blister(s) appear is the contagious period. I've had a "cold sore" on my lip a few times in my life but haven't had an outbreak in over 15 years.

Stay healthy... take your zinc and vitamin C and D and you will not likely have outbreaks unless severely run down or under a lot of stress.

If you get it in your genital area it may, or may not be, the exact same as the type on your mouth. Again, it is contagious just before and during the first day or three of the outbreak. And once you get it, you've got it for life, although those who take acyclovir may defeat it over a long period of time. The drug is usually only available to those with AIDS.
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Re: Would you sleep with a PORN STAR?

Postby Earl Butz » Fri Dec 25, 2009 3:34 am

Gee I never replied to this thread. I thought it was too silly to respond to. I still do but I'm bored so I'll reply. Wow. Reading that just took 5 seconds off your life. :P

If he was hot, sure. Strippers tend to turn me off, though. Blatant sluttiness like that just doesn't turn me on. Turns me off. Completely.

I put the likelihood of this actually happening at about 1 in 15 billion, though. Worse odds than the lottery. Yikes. :(
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