westboard wrote:oh man...so i'm still in school right? in a physiology lab class a few semesters back and i would catch this dude staring at me. He was pretty cute, no actually he was really cute...and hot...and STARING at me. i was like "wtf is his deal??" he'd stare at me for extended periods of time...i mean up to a minute, i see him via a reflection off a black plastic paper towel dispenser, and when i look at him (cuz i can't help but steal glances) he'd break eye contant. And whenever i dont realize he's staring and i just happen to look at him, i get nervous and by reflex break contact instantaneously, and not smoothly.
man, that semester i'd think up scenarios of me asking him why he's staring at me, if he had a problem with me or...if he wanted to hang out or something, but of course i was too chicken sh*t. He had some very minor feminine mannerisms but nothing major, couldn't tell if he was gay or straight (just how i like 'em, but therein itself lies the conflict since my gaydar sucks)
He was Persian and i was asking around about him, but they told me Persion guys take machismo seriously and are easily offended if you compromise it or suggest differently.
butch wrote:Don't ask him why he stares. Ask him out if he's interesting, or just smile back at him... i.e. let him know you know he's looking.
Self confidence can be acquired through practice. If you act like you're in charge, people will be inclined to believe you actually are. Take charge.
joe_uk wrote:I would never know that (a guy that i fancied) was gay, unless he was in a gay bar/pub/event. then i would assume he was (but i have had the bad luck to try to pick the straight guy who was out with his gay mate)
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